ingratiation

n.逢迎；讨好

But how to strike the balance between charm and ingratiation? 不过，如何在展现魅力与奉迎讨好之间达到平衡呢？

My mother has the projective relationship of power and ingratiation. 将逆境看成“因”，省思将来可能产生的“果”，激发自己的潜能。

Ingratiation is that you show you unction which would make other people feel uncomfortable and have defensive feeling. 逢迎是虚情假意，那会造成别人的戒心和不舒服。

ingratiation n. 逢迎;讨好;